Friday, October 16, 2009

Inspired Blessings

The phone rang at 5:00 a.m. Andrew had taken a turn for the worst. We all gathered at the hospital. Some time around 4:00 a.m. Andrew's lungs quit doing their job. When we went to his beside several residents and nurses were crying. They do not want to lose Andrew. We had a few moments to talk to him and tell him of our love. The surgical team came up with a procedure that can buy him time while his lungs heal. The lungs may have collapsed or had blood clots, and infection. They weren't sure. As a last resort, they decided to put him on an artifical heart/lung machine. They put tubes into his coratid arterties and in his femoral arterty. The blood circulates out of his body, goes through the machine to get rid of carbon dioxide, then adding in oxygen to the blood. Andrew received a blessing from a resident and Uncle Byron. He was blessed that it is not his time to go. We all gathered on the 3rd floor to wait. Our good friend Tracy, from Germany, was on the case. We were so impressed with her professionalism. She said to me as I walked out, "Not on my Watch". While we waited, the Parks came to comfort us. They were on the way to their daughters wedding but found the time to stop by and see the Spilkers. The Parks are so Christ-like. We love them. After an hour or so, we talked to the doctor. The machine was installed. It is a very technical thing. They call it a balancing act. Every number has to be just so. We were able to see Andrew. He is under morphine. It will be as long 7-10 days to know what's up. They can do tests to see if his lungs have healed and if they can handle breathing. The life-support maching was not even working when this occured. So this was our last option. Tracy came out later and let us know that we can keep hope alive. She said that we must have prayed for the doctors. She had never seen the procedure go so smoothly. As you can imagine this set-back was discouraging and worrisome. Alex will leave to Washington tomorrow. We had hoped that he could leave under better circumstances. What I do want you to know is that we had a very spiritual experience today. Too sacred to tell in detail. However, we felt peace during this crisis. We believe that it is, in fact, not yet Andrew's time to go. The odds seem overwelming. It will be three weeks tomorrow. Although this is a big setback, we reaffirm that God is watching over us. All thing move according to his time and according to his will. Andrew's priesthood blessings have indicated that there will be a recovery. Please help us by increasing your prayers. We love you and are thankful for your support! The Spilker and Martin Family have lifted us up and held our hands. What a great family we have. G-pa Spilker brought Andrew a mini Jazz ball. He was squeezing it last night. We believe in Miracles!!

7 comments:

  1. We are praying continually for Andrew and your Family. Our son Jaden, is a friend of Andrew's from school and he has been very concerned about Andrew. It is so great to hear of your Miracles and Faith. Hang in there. You are an Inspiration to many. Give Andrew our Love.
    The Foust Family

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  2. Michelle,

    I want you to know that I know so many children who have been put on ECMO and have survived!! Andrew is a fighter and he's not going anywhere - his mission is not complete on this earth. I believe in miracles! I have seen so many in my lifetime.

    I have been praying all day long for Andrew. Early this morning my Alex told me she got a text that said pray for Andrew. At that moment I knew something was happening. I prayed hard for him and it has not stopped. As we have heard bits and pieces of differing stories today, my prayers have continued. And not just my prayers, but those of neighbors who love you and your family.

    It's such a special blessing when our Father sends us a touch of heaven to comfort us in these times of crisis. Just know that we love you and want to wrap you and your family in our arms. Andrew is a miracle!

    Stephanie

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  3. Lots of prayers, love and hope!! We love you guys.

    Heidi, Joe and Henry

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  4. Family,

    We're there with you - if only from 2000 miles away here on the east coast in Virgiia. Know our hearts feel close and our heads are in the fight every hour with you. Blessings!! Love you all. . .

    Max and Jan

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  5. We are praying for Andrew and your family. Isn't it a wonderful comfort to know that our Heavenly Father has a plan for us! Hang in there. There is always a rainbow after the rain.
    Will and Carol Cluff

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  6. Dear Spiklers,
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your beloved Andrew. We have fond memories of our time with you during Fiddler. May the joy of faith be with you during this time of trial. We love you very much and are adding our faith to all of the others praying for you.

    Kyle and Kathi Magner
    Sara, Rachel and Aaron Shaw

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  7. We are praying fervently for Andrew. Our son Jeremy is a school friend of Andrews and checks the updates of has condition everyday. We are so inspired by your continuing faith and strength! It is very apparent that Andrew is a fighter. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
    Love,
    The Iannone/Trout family

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